A man wants a woman, a lady, a more than a friend baby. Sure-footed, no ifs, no buts, no maybes. She is his biggest fan, his main critic, his companion, and his guide. A man wants physical beauty, wit, intelligence, smarts, and a good communicator. That warm body, that external conscience, that sticky note, that backbone, and a well grounded support. Her inner spirit, her nature to nurture convincing a man to consider her a mother, a partner, the perfect person to create a dynamic duo condoned from above.
What a man wants in a woman is more than just a jump off, a cut buddy, a nut release, she is more than a fantasy or a magic city chick. A man wants a woman with her perfect imperfections, the apple labeled “his eyes only”, she is right even though she is clearly wrong, a woman whose values are worth fighting for, standing up for, killing for, even dying for. A woman who can give sound feedback and not just useless sound bites, she is the push and the pull, the coordinator and suppressor of his ego; the mastermind behind that great idea.
Fantasies keep the imagination alive, it keeps that yearning and desire to develop, grow, and blossom into a flower that is part of a flourishing garden. Our fantasies are intriguing, imaginative, despicable at times. Patiently waiting to be harvested and placed among the bouquet of things done and worth remembering. All men want a lady in the streets and a freak between the sheets, careless teasing, all woman and so much more. Deep down a man wants his woman to be able to fulfill his fantasies, enable his perverted appetite with the V’s of pleasure… Vivacious, Vibrant, Vigorous, Vivid, and an all star Vixen, then to be able to flip that switch and be the lady, the woman, the envy of all with mesmerizing class.
Being her friend is cool but being her companion is greater. What a man really want is a woman he can listen to, a woman he can make laugh and have conversations with. A woman who can encourage his dreams, guide him to be selfless, counsel his aspirations to focus on the union you have built. Be a woman whom he can dote on without price checking, a woman he can be himself with, a woman who is able to build a home upon his foundation, and most of all, a woman he can be unconditionally affectionate with……
